Bear in mind that people may vary from these norms. Men have every incentive to have sex to pass along their genetic material, Laumann says. Women who regularly attend church are less likely to have permissive attitudes about sex. They're also more likely to choose a man with resources because of his greater ability to support a child. Fathers use “Command terms” with boys more than girls; and more than mothers gave. Girls more interested in toys with faces than boys are; play with stuffed animals and dolls more; boys drawn to blocks or anything that can be manipulated. That's another difference between the sexes: how often they have an orgasm during sex. Men have a much more difficult time relating to their own feelings, and may feel very threatened by the expression of feelings in their presence. To get along, you MUST accept, expect and respect these differences. Some have theorized it's related to the greater power of men in society, or differing sexual expectations of men when compared to women. "For men, sex is the connection. But women will only do it if the candles are scented just right -- and their partner has done the dishes first. A man’s deepest fear is that he is not good enough or not competent enough, though he may never express this. "Men are very rigid and specific about who they become aroused by, who they want to have sex with, who they fall in love with," says J. Michael Bailey. ��(J���u��ﰕ��Q�j�MR�DdF\T�B�.��o��Y��'�-�ؾ�U��F�I�]D����D3�yu1��F8,�u� z*jݶ�r��dgK�5�yku�*fs6�y"��R��V>JK~AU�UA��U@�̈R0s[Fp�}�'$Om����Ra2�����u�ؐ�F�}���Il6s��0�� lh�Né�Z��,��WbrcRL�DrE��Z:��-�i��U_(�)����10�B\:@�\�7a�A����Bճ��^T�v�6�K)��C4��y'���ĦHA'm@��^s̕v�qΩ0>�Mr�}P���L��L]�_l��U�^��%i��:�^��t�?i1qT4�B�j lg�Y!U���%��栐�A!��C�5 Boys get away with more aggressive antisocial behavior in school and home than girls. In a survey of studies comparing male and female sex drives, Roy Baumeister, a social psychologist at Florida State University, found that men reported more spontaneous sexual arousal and had more frequent and varied fantasies. The purpose of the present study, then, was to compare men’s and women’s self-reports of their relationship behaviors and attitudes to the stereotypes ascribed to them by the opposite sex. But the drug has sparked a backlash from some medical and psychiatric professionals who question whether low sex drive in women should even be considered a condition best treated with drugs. He is a professor of sociology at the University of Chicago and lead author of a major survey of sexual practices, The Social Organization of Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the United States. Both men and women speak louder to boys than girl infants; they are softer and express more “cooing” with girls. "Women probably have the capacity to become sexually interested in and fall in love with their own sex more than men do," Bailey says. For women, cleanliness of house is a manifestation of warm, homey nest. They asked them about their level of sexual arousal, and also measured their actual level of arousal through devices attached to their genitals. Women are very concerned about issues relating to physical attractiveness; changes in this area can be as difficult for women as changes in a man’s financial status. ��@o��MD���t���N�_�R�JP����l# ���� ��b�d�������a��#�|=M�k}-L�A���Q3��1^A��MJM�Y�BPP��]�ŽX���T���;���dtc�Ρ����؛K��7��wҝ~OR����\���N�ɬ��l��Z�k/���8�n�H5L�;��1�����y��4'�. "They won't necessarily do it, but they have the capacity.". The men reported more partners on average than the women. ]��ɲ�'����^�g�r�' ��q�;1�ԅ����1���${QDZǎ�2�1�%06i& �K��.+6%�o�j� Laumann prefers an explanation more closely tied to the world of sociobiology.